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Compromise
Read each statement and fill in the appropriate TRUE or FALSE bubble. Printer Friendly
DURING OUR ATTEMPTS TO RESOLVE CONFLICT BETWEEN US:
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TRUE FALSE
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| 1. Our decisions often get made by both of us compromising. |
m |
m |
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| 2. We are usually good at resolving our differences. |
m |
m |
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| 3. I can give in when I need to, and often do. |
m |
m |
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| 4. I can be stubborn in an argument, but I’m not opposed to compromising. |
m |
m |
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| 5. I think that sharing power in a relationship is very important. |
m |
m |
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| 6. My partner is not a very stubborn person. |
m |
m |
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| 7. I don’t believe that one person is usually right and the other wrong on most issues. |
m |
m |
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| 8. We both believe in meeting each other half way when we disagree. |
m |
m |
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| 9. I am able to yield somewhat even when I feel strongly on an issue. |
m |
m |
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| 10. The two of us usually arrive at a better decision through give-and-take. |
m |
m |
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| 11. It’s a good idea to give in somewhat, in my view. |
m |
m |
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| 12. In discussing issues, we can usually find our common ground of agreement. |
m |
m |
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| 13. Everyone gets some of what they want when there is a compromise. |
m |
m |
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| 14. My partner can give in, and often does. |
m |
m |
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| 15. I don’t wait until my partner gives in before I do. |
m |
m |
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| 16. When I give in first, my partner then gives in, too. |
m |
m |
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| 17. Yielding power is not very difficult for my partner. |
m |
m |
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| 18. Yielding power is not very difficult for me. |
m |
m |
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| 19. Give-and-take in making decisions is not a problem in this relationship. |
m |
m |
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| 20. I will compromise even when I believe I am right. |
m |
m |
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